Hardships are inevitable in one’s life. People tend to take it in a negative way and get frustrated by seeing others doing well. What they do not know is that it is the time to strengthen your inner-self. Followings are the invaluable qualities one develops if one does not give up and works consistently –
TOLERANCE
Circumstances, situations, physical and mental health, relationships, your reactions to others will not be normal, probably these might be against you. Gradually with the course of the time you will learn to think, respond and focus appropriately. And developing learning nature in such situations is not a small thing.

EMOTIONAL STEADINESS
Tough times make you go through physical, mental, emotional, societal pressures and turbulences. During course of the time you will realize that a resistance to such turbulences has been developed. That will only be possible through your will power. And you will see yourself get placed where such turbulences have almost no effects on you.

LISTENING
Yes listening. During normal days listening only created images and understandings of your prejudices and pre conceptions about yourself and others. But now you see things as they are just by listening. As has been said that listening might be the shortcut path to wisdom.

ACCEPTANCE
Now by circumstances you are forced to accept things as they are. Trying to maintain your illusioned images about yourself and others will only cause instability inside you. It’s only after acceptance you will be able to work on controllables and can bring about improvements.

CREATIVITY
Creativity needs non-traditional mind, stability of the mind. Given that these might have been developed during course of the hard times, you will now be able to work upon circumstances, your reactions, relationships, opportunities by working upon evident and unexplored dimensions as well.

GROWTH MINDSET
Traditional mindset will always assume future at such chaos time that nothing can be done and you have been dragged down the line some 10-20 years back. But you will realize that by stable mind and creativity you are able to improve things going around. Things can be improved by working upon them. Nothing is permanent by nature.

ORIGINALITY
You do not get easily affected by things going outside around. Things are seen as they are. And being original is what required to excel in any aspects of the life.

RISK TAKING
By improving things not going well, you become process oriented. And things, which might not be easy, can also be done properly by doing home work extensively.

IMPROVEMENT NOT COMPETITION
Now on you do not care about rat race. You solely focus on improvement about circumstances. And this quality makes you prosperous in actual.

CONFIDENCE
Going through ups and downs, not giving up despite all adversities, working upon circumstances, relationships, your reactions and insecurities make you resilient and more confident.

BEING EGO-FREE
Chaos in life breaks-down images of yourself on your mind that is your ego or identity. Now you are with no images. Being ego-free is the gateway to peace and prosperity in life.

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